i answered this question in 9th grade:

If you had to list the traits (phsyical, personality, character, etc.) of your perfect mate, what would they be? Try to be specific as you can be.

-Shouldn’t be fat.

-Well, it has to be a he :)

-He has to be kind, & loving & understanding.

-He should be a Christian.

-I want him to be at least cute, if not gorgeous :)

-I like blonde and brunette, long hair is my favorite, but short is fine to.

-I like skinny jeans, not baggy - but normal fit jeans work to.

-He needs to play some sort of sport or at least be active (skateboard/longboard?) (not a video game junkie)

-I would really like it if he listens to the same music as me.

-It would be cool if he could play guitar/bass/drums/sing or whatever. (like be in a band).

-I dont mind short guys, but average or tall would be good.

-He has to have a sense of humor, but not gross-out humor.

-He has to be fairly mature… :)

Can definitely say, things have been added and subtracted from this list since then. i guess thats just part of growing up and learning..